Tim Tedder 1/13/26 Tim Tedder 1/13/26

Moving Beyond the WHY of His Affair

One man’s realization that the insights to his affair can become a crutch if they don’t result in change.

Tim Tedder 1/9/26 Tim Tedder 1/9/26

Rising Phoenix: Seeing the Other Person for What She Was

Rising Phoenix traces the slow, embodied shift from seeing “the other person” as a rival to recognizing she was never the true threat—the unhealed wounds within the marriage were. It’s about reclaiming self-worth, letting comparison fall away, and coming home to oneself.

Tim Tedder 1/7/26 Tim Tedder 1/7/26

Up, Down, and Onward

Tim Tedder looks back at the ups and downs of the past year, and forward to what’s coming next to the Affair Healing community.

Tim Tedder 1/5/26 Tim Tedder 1/5/26

Triggered by Venmo

A glowing phone nearly reopens old wounds, revealing how easily trust can be shaken, and how attention matters as much as honesty in healing after betrayal.

Tim Tedder 1/2/26 Tim Tedder 1/2/26

Rising Phoenix: What the Past Can Teach Us

Rising Phoenix explores reclaiming the truth of a shared past after betrayal, refusing to let infidelity erase or rewrite decades of real love, struggle, and life built together.

Tim Tedder 12/31/25 Tim Tedder 12/31/25

Can you cheat with an AI lover?

One woman’s story of finding an intimate, loving connection with an AI chat bot. What do you think?

Tim Tedder 12/30/25 Tim Tedder 12/30/25

Four Resolution Ideas for Couples

Four suggestions of activities couples can do in 2026 to help maintain a healthy connection.

Tim Tedder 12/26/25 Tim Tedder 12/26/25

Rising Phoenix: Steps To Authenticity

How rebuilding after infidelity wasn’t just about salvaging a relationship, but about learning to trust the body, understand triggers, and show up differently for yourself. Rising Phoenix tells how healing became a slow return to self rather than a rush to restore what was lost.

Tim Tedder 12/22/25 Tim Tedder 12/22/25

Fog & Light Exercise

Download: An exercise that encourages a refocus on the promises made between spouses.

Tim Tedder 12/19/25 Tim Tedder 12/19/25

Rising Phoenix: My Favorite Season

Christmas seasons after betrayal became quiet markers of grief, survival, and slow rebuilding, shifting the holiday from something lost to something redefined. Love and joy now come from presence, honesty, and a steadiness earned through pain.